Rai Karr

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Learned the Hard Way

So once again I am playing catch up on my blog. I don’t know why I do this to myself. I LOVE to blog, but I always put it on the back burner because I think I will do it later … then life gets in the way and poof! I didn’t get it done. So … This is my promise to try to do better, and my promise to myself because blogging helps to see things from a different perspective.

So, I am blogging about my sad misfortune a couple of weeks ago. We were at a friend of ours house. These friends are the only ones in our city that know about our practice of the lifestyle and how things are usually dealt with here at the Karr household. As a result, the Husband and I are more relaxed and at home at their house. The husband doesn’t embarrass me with or anything like that, but he will openly give me the eye, playfully threaten to paddle my ass, and if I cross one of the lines I am not supposed to, he does not hesitate to pull me aside and whisper promises of retribution when we get home.

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The Extra Long Weekend

Today, after much arguing back and forth, my bio family is descending upon my house. Is it bad to say that I am not looking forward to it? *Head Desk*

That is not fair of me to say, I should be happy that they are coming and enjoy it … right? I mean … it has been a year since they were here and my kids will love having them here. <—– This is what I keep telling myself, but the dread of all that comes with them is overwhelming.

Don’t get me wrong, I love my grandmother, sisters, nephews, and my sister’s fiance, but my incubator (aka the woman who birthed me) is who I am worried about being here. It is her that causes all the issues. It is her that pits my sisters and I against each other, and it is her that bitches about everything!

Worst of all, it is her that causes trouble between the Dom and me. She will sit in her chair and bring up things that have caused us to fight in the past or compare him to my father and how much my husband is like him. She will keep doing that until I snap at her or start to believe what she says and snap at my husband … And we all know what happens we a sub snaps.

So … if you do now hear from me by Monday for MCM … I am either in jail for killing the incubator or still bent over my husband’s lap.

Wish me luck!

My Nerd

Hello, my follower! I know what you’re thinking, “What! Three blog posts in a week! Be still my beating heart!” Before you have a heart attack, I must confess, my husband has been very “nicely” demanding that I get on the ball with this whole “blog thing” for a few weeks now and demanded that I set up the first two posts last Sunday. So, since he was going all Dom on me with this blog, I have decided that I need to write a post about him and his Dommlyness. *insert cheesy “I win” smile here*

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Adopting Katie By Allysa Hart

Oh my gosh, guys! I know I have been MIA for a while but I am so excited for today’s post! … Look at me acting like I have hundreds of people following my blog and it is not just my sisters and my husband lol. Anyways, back to my excitement.

Today, one of my sisters, my Twinsie, Allysa Hart , reveled, not only her blurb for her soon to be released book, Adopting Katie, but she also released the AMAZING cover that she made herself!

And! Because I am tight with the author, she is allowing me to share it with all of my followers! *giggle* …  Anyways without further ado! The cover and the blurb for Adopting Katie by Allysa Hart! Enjoy! Continue reading “Adopting Katie By Allysa Hart”

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